Cause 1: You don't know enough about the area you're moving to.

• It's important to gather as much information as possible about your new destination to manage expectations and minimize uncertainty. Use available resources such as newspapers, the Internet and realtors to keep yourself informed.

• Before you decide to move, make sure your current home is in saleable condition. Hire a licensed home inspector to ensure you meet current safety requirements.

Cause 3: The cost of living in your new area is too high.

• Be comfortable in your new home by verifying appropriate cost of living indicators and confirming they are in-line with your means and expectations. Check demographic data and economic indicators through real estate agents and the local Chamber of Commerce.

• Accurately assess your finances before you begin looking for your new home. Knowing what size house you can afford usually pre-empts major pre-qualifying difficulties. If you're already pre-approved for a loan, be sure to get terms in writing to make the purchase as smooth as possible.

Cause 5: Your new home turned out to be a lemon.

• Avoid wasting time and money on unexpected defects and damages in your new home. Use a certified home inspection service. Inspectors should be licensed, bonded, insured and members of the American Society of Home Inspectors. Confirm fees and expectations before the inspection.

• Temporary housing can be worry-free if you make arrangements ahead of time. Research your options and use a realtor to avoid the stress, limitation and expense of hotels.

• If you are dependent on two incomes, make sure you have identified and confirmed employment opportunities for your partner. Start job-hunting via the Internet or get a local newspaper mailed to you before you move.

• Be confident that your children will be well educated and adequately supervised in your new community. Research your child's options before moving to avoid disappointment later.

• Minimize sadness and behavior problems by adequately preparing children for a move. Help them through the trauma of missing old friends and leaving familiar places by spending time with them and easing their anxiety.

• We often discover a new place is not at all like we imagined it. The culture, values, and people of your new neighborhood may be very different from what you expected. Minimize disappointment by engaging in familiar activities and learning about your community to acclimate to your new surroundings.

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